((Alffe)) Thanks once again for your wise words.
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His wife assured me that having this time together makes it no easier than if he had died unexpectedly.
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I have to agree with her on that one a thousand per cent.
I've seen both. The unexpected death and the long haul of sickness. I never ever wanna go through that long haul again.
We have a friend who has a large sarcoma mass at the base of his tailbone. He was misdiagnosed for some time and in extreme pain. He just went through a series of chemo to reduce the size of the mass so they could operate at Mayo in Rochester. They just found out that the mass didn't get bigger, but it also didn't get any smaller, so they have to go back to Mayo to find out what next.
Suffering with someone you love for months on end emotionally and physically takes such a huge toll.
I'm so sorry about your friend ((Alffe)).