Thanks Leesa. My wife is one of the people who talks around me. I have mentioned it to the family and have even started calling myself the "Galley Slave." I guess they agree because nothing changes.

Dr. "Well don't pick up for them. Make them do it" Me, "All that gets me is a bigger pile of crap until I can't stand it any more."

I guess when i huff up the stairs. (Those 14 steps used to be so easy to climb)

The Dr has said it is OK to fool around, but she hasn't and I am not one to push. "so do it yourself." "what fun is that?" I just needed a place to shout.