I ahve been using my stim on higher setting and have noted with the higher setting, the bladder is more difficult to control, i.e. if you get the signal that you need to go, then RUN to the nearest toilet.
I am sorry the difficulties are plaguing you MrsCJM, Patti, and RhondaIndy, gee, it sure doesn't fall into the realm of what you had expected or hoped. I pray that real solutions are found for you all, and soon.
Mark56