I too, try not to "reveal" if I'm in pain....especially at work. Even though they're nurses, most just don't get it. I've cut my hours down to weekends to lessen the stress on me. The only way someone figures it out is if I limp more or move stiffly. My kids are grown and doing their own thing so it's just my husband and I. I used to be really **** about my house cleaning but just don't let a messey house consume me. My husband of 6 years, God love him, has seen me in pain and discomfort most of our marriage. Although I feel guilty sometimes, he never nags or rags on me, and does help with the housework. I'm lucky to have him.

So, if you're not getting the support you need, come here and share with us. We'll "listen" to you. God knows we've all been there at some point.

Rhonda