My definition of support is just try to be understanding. Realize that I cannot do the things I used to do ~ and PLEASE do not offer suggestions as to treatments as I've had them ALL done.

if YOU have heard of them, so have I ~ I don't live under a rock.
I think MOST of us just want understanding with MAYBE a little compassion thrown in ~ NOT pity. I HATE pity.
And unless you REALLY want to know how we are, don't ask. LOL You might get a long drawn-out diatribe of every painful spot on our body! lol
Have a great day. Hugs, Lee