Welcome to NT! - and thank you for introducing yourself and your precious wife, Betty!
You've found a wonderful place for support! Not only that, but at the top of each forum here you'll notice a special section called the 'Stickies'....full of very informative and useful links to help understand the battles we face.

We are like a big family here, so please feel at home....
Ask if you need help in finding your way around....

Others will be along to welcome you and give a bit of input

It's so good to have you...
I wish the best for you and your wife

Truly Caring
Rae