lol mari absolutely not. or yes you are right about the concern but it won't do that now lol.

at best i might be able to gather some of it at the nape, but the front part would not make it to there - would still hang loose around my face. not suggesting i will do this, just to give you an idea of lengths. i might even just take the back up a little, or not. it's mostly whim.

it's mostly when i'm depressed i deliberate too much

i still deliberate when not depressed but, but then i deliberately act too.

when i'm like this i don't always do much deliberating on my hair nor do much deliberately.

i arrived in california state with long hair.

within the first couple weeks i cut it every night it was like a thing. i dunno if i'm on that thing now, it might reasonably need some adjustments even if i dont change it radically again like take it to an inch all around. i would not do that mightself though, so whole other pzzer about finding someone ...

~ waves ~