Hi,
I had a long talk with my mom. The problem is ALCOHOL and I know it and she knows it. So, there will be no more alcohol in this house. If she doesn't drink everything is fine. She has agreed. If she ask's me to go get, I will NOT. If she starts about it, I will go for a ride, or walk the dogs, until she realizes I am serious. I think she knows now, I am very serious.

She is a different person when she is sober. She I mean when she drinks.

We also have information from the counsel of aging being sent, to see what she needs, and I need, as to a break for me sometimes..

They have loads of options to chose from.

This is what I have decided, if this does not work, then I will go to plan B. I know you probably think I am crazy, but I have to give this a try and be firm.

I made this decision, she did not beg or make me feel guilty about moving.
I just have to do this, I hope you can understand.

Hugs, Nikko