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Join Date: Mar 2011
Location: Florida
Posts: 30
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Junior Member
Join Date: Mar 2011
Location: Florida
Posts: 30
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can't change others
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Originally Posted by waves
i don'tknow what's goign to happen
bt the other girl called the consultant boss coz yeasterdy my boss and i got into it again and i - having learned that sticking to guns can be key, have doen so... well but it degraded when i did not realize and suddenly he was being aggressive about the software deadline again like implications on my duties etc and i try to keep il lokey with replies like 'well i'm working on your stuff here, i'm not sitting here watching tv' but
afterthe fight
i was shaking from top to bottom.
i put my hands on the desk to stop from being ovious
could not think
furious
i spare you all the inbetweens and the amount of drugs and alcohol i've put down - mostly benzos and alkie in combo at times.
today i was barely past catatonic getting to work. my sleep med makes me feel peaceful , but this morning, i had sobs in my breath.
they "talked to me" today....................
they are going to "talk to my boss" tomorrow................
i actually thought about having a "heart-to-heart" with my boss................... may be risky. but also feels "honest."
i dunno. blatant honesty when not required has gotten me fired in teh past.
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I'm new here, so I don't know if I should be giving any kind of advice to anyone, but I'm just sharing.
One thing I've learned is that you can't change how other people act, only how you react to them. If you have a medical condition, medical or mental that you are getting treatment for, and it affects your mood, then in most cases you should be all right as long as you let HR know you are in treatment for your disorder and it has ramifications to your mood, or the meds do. Of course, this depends on the size of the company as small companies are exempt from some of the rules that apply to larger ones.
I've found that when I was working, saying that "yes, I'm working on this, this, and that, which would you prefer me to prioritize first" may help. Also, the deep breathing also helps but I don't know how it would affect you.
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