I know what you mean, every day for a lot of the day.
I thought that after 2 years I would just get used to the pain and all the rest, but I haven't, it still bugs me and still greatly affects me, I have tried to at least stop voicing how I am feeling even to my closest friends and family because it just worries them and that is one thing that has helped me to stop concentrating on it as much. The other thing is this blog, it gives me a chance to vent without bothering people and it is nice to share a little experience.

Hope you find a solution,
Good Luck!
Margarite