Hi, I am the wife a a TBI husband of 3 years ago. I am in the process of a divorce and am looking for support of anyone else in the same boat as me. Until the accident on Sept. 30 2007 we had a normal marriage. The night of the accident the brain surgeon met me and indicated that if my husband survives this accident he will never b the same man he was before the accident. 3 days Jesse - my husband was given last rites. Well he survived and yes, the dr. was correct. I noticed differences immediately. His likes and dislikes were different but nothing I could not tolerate. Well last year ws the year from hell for me. He became very distant but the most disturbing thing was he found a whore. I in turned filed for divorce. well, shortly after filing was told this behavior was due to the brain injury. It all made sense at that time. I know I am leaving out a lot of details but in a nutshell this is what is going on in my life. We have been married 24 years and I am so confused at this time. Sometimes I am talking to my 55 year old husband and then other times, most times he is a 17 - 25 year old person. Any one going through anything like this? I need some advice as to what I should do and how do I go on in life?