I'm right there with you B2Y. It's hard because we want to do these things and yet, we are limited.

I also hate it when someone asks and I am doing good at the time. So, of course, I say yes. Then the "event" comes and I'm having a bad day and have to cancel out. This is really frustrating and upsetting to me.

I'm learning to say, "I can't do xyz, but I can do abc." At least this way, I feel that I am doing something.