Sorry to hear of your upsetting diagnoses. But, the doctor is being truthful. This does not mean you cannot improve your life. There are plenty of things you can do to improve your life. Learning to make good choices so you do not put yourself in 'short fuse" situations is a worthwhile goal.

It is best to work on each symptoms individually. As you learn to make good choices, you can become a much better person that you were before.

Tell us about the struggles than have changed your life the most. I am sure there is someone who has a work-around to overcome each difficulty.

My best to you.