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Old 04-28-2011, 06:25 AM
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Default I am incredibly STRESSED about finding legal documents

HI,
My state has enacted new burdensome laws for drivers license renewal. I have lived here since the 1970s as a child. They don't care. They want all of this before I can renew my license this time: Are they nuts!!!??

~original birth certificate
~social security card --must be in my current name
~two proofs of residence (Lots of this stuff is in hubby's name instead of mine believe it or not because I let him deal with most paperwork)
~proof of name changes through marriage / divorce /marriage / and so on


Every time I start to gather what I need, I lose what I had or come upon another stumbling block.

Two and a half weeks ago I drove to a court house for a document and got a speeding ticket on the way home.
NOW I have lost both the new document and the speeding ticket.

I want a personal assistant or lawyer to take care of my stuff!!

This morning, I asked hubby for general support about my getting through this and he freaked out. He went into his OCD-mode about how I need to keep track, about how important this is, about how I should have told him about the speeding ticket. . . . He thinks I make things difficult. I don't know how two such high anxiety people can be put together in a marriage.

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I just took .5 Klonopin so I can go back to sleep.
I'll try to do some of this over the phone after I wake up.
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