mark 56 and others, thanks soooo much for sharing with me, cuz as i previously stated, im pretty nervous. im the one that everyone comes to for advice, the down side to that is, when you're in need, everyone assumes "she got that". She's always ok, and strong, and full of faith. Not so easy when its you trying to inspire yourself. Oh by the way, Mark 56, you should be a "Writer", and i do mean that as a compliment.