Three days post surgery- wow! May all go well with you my friend. Yes, a grabber is a good thing to have. Those depressive days you are experiencing, I did not experience, and then went into a DEEP depression requiring counselling and medication right after I had fully withdrawn from all of the pain meds. I did not experience a "pms" style depression right after surgery [but, then, I am a guy
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Prayin for ya,
Mark56
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