Hi tbirdowner86,
I have just read the history of your little boys and am glad they are doing so well, I also have hydrocephalus and have had since birth and I am now, with help from neurosurgeons and keeping an eye on my symptoms, am completely normal. As with annakkro in the above post, you wouldn't even know I had hydrocephalus unless you felt my head!
Good luck to you and your family with everything and dont be afraid to ask questions on here, we are a friendly bunch!