There are many reasons for having the symptoms that are diagnosed as bipolar disorder. Even when there is a strong genetic component, which genes can differ from family to family, and there are environmental, or "
epigenetic" contributors. We do not have crystal balls and even someone without bipolar can have a child who does, and vice versa.
I would NOT base my decision based on nebulous genetics since in this case there does not seem to always be a definite outcome based on such. Rather, I would base it only on the immediate family's capability of providing a loving, stable, nurturing, environment for the child. Base the decision on whether or not YOU can be a good parent.
Educate yourself to minimize the adverse environmental influences that can contribute to the child's health and well-being.
Here are some books that might be beneficial to read in that regard, (forewarned is forearmed) and best of luck to you:
A Compromised Generation: The Epidemic of Chronic Illness in America's Children
Our Toxic World: A Wake Up Call
It's not Mental
The Highly Sensitive Child: Helping Our Children Thrive When the World Overwhelms Them