Hi Jenna,
Thanks for bringing this one up, it's a tough one. My hubby and I speak about it, he was afraid of hurting me after the surgery which is fair enough but..... I dunno, we definitely talk about it but yet unresolved.... I guess if you're up for it then why not just take one step at a time, personally i'm so tired after a day... maybe if an opportunity presented itself and it's only 3 or 5 in the afternoon why not give it ago. Get a babysitter for a couple of hours.
When was the last time you were able to get out? even for dinner, or would you be able to get away for a weekend without the kids, let what brought you and your hubby together let itself flouish/out (whatever the word is) again.
You could take it easy, maybe go for a massage (if u can, with crps does your skin hurt - I read the symptoms) together, relax and take it frm there.
Funny thing is I could do with taking my own advice here! No work for the last few months makes for a poor Sinéad! Everything is so expensive on one wage but hey if you can, why not, yee deserve a treat

Take care hun, I hope all works out soon, it's important that it does in my opinion.

Sinéad