twinkletoes : thank you, yes everyone that doesnt know me, thinks i am healthy..when people try to shake my hand, i always have to stear them to my other one (my right hand is affected, and im right-handed) .. whenever there is older people that are needing help carrying something, or look like they are having a hard time, i just have to walk by, because i know i cant, and i just look like a mean person, but i feel really bad inside that i cant help..its hard!