How do you do that?? Dear ginnie..you continue to do what you have been doing...you survive inspite of all the obsticles...that is the definition of a hero..but you won't be doing all this alone..we are here for you and like Addy said..try to feel our positive energy coming your way.

I have to say that I do understand your "bitterness" ...the other side of anger is deep pain...am reminded of the book Tear Soup and how we grieve our losses..you have lost your family over money.. I am so sorry.

On a positive note...lets hear it for the judge..proBono!! Hurray!!