Good one Sally! I know what you mean Blessings! I think they just don't know what to say, but they want to say something. They may think you can relate, but they don't realize how much we relate! Guess it's good they at least think to say something.
After telling my kids and husband, and one brother, two or three friends and co-workers, I actually haven't heard a word about anything. I guess since it took 4 years of me getting test after test, finally knowing hasn't made a whole lot of difference. I guess constant comparing would be worse!
You take care and know you are a strong person from within!
Deb