Dejibo, you have every right to feel "fried". And to dislike parents
who do not make their kids behave. TV has made us believe that
kids will come out all right without too much parenting. No, need
lots! My son, not a perfect person, nevertheless is a great father and
so is his wife. Their kids NEVER behave like that outside the house.
Inside the house, yes, but never outside the house. Actually I guess
that is the parenting style in his neighborhood--all kids are within
homes or if outside homes, doing something quiet and constructive.
It's amazing.

Sorry you got the wrong neighborhood!