I can relate to doctors disagreeing. I went to a pain doctor who wanted me to do a procedure. I went for another opinion and that doctor was against the procedure suggested and offered a different approach. So then I went for a 3rd and got another suggestion. Talk about being lost. I had to research myself about what was suggested and make the best informed choice I could. Also ask the doctors a lot of questions
Did you state to both doctors how you are getting conflicting feedback and are confused? Is there any proof in what they are saying like specific testing etc? Do btoh doctors deal a lot with the conditions you have? Can you go for another opinion?
Sorry for so many questions and not a lot of answers for you. Hang in there.