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Old 03-06-2007, 09:58 PM
DOUG DOUG is offline
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DOUG DOUG is offline
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Join Date: Dec 2006
Location: NY
Posts: 15
15 yr Member
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NAMES DOUG
CAN I ASK HOW OLD YOUR MOM IS MAYBE THE OFFICE FOR THE AGING CAN HELP MY FAMILY JUST WENT THROUGH SOMETHING SIMULAR
WITH MY GRANMOTHER
MY GRANDMOTHER WAS EXTREMLY ABUSIVE TO THE ENTIRE FAMILY
MYSELF INCLUDED AND I WAS ONE OF 7 GRANDCHILDREN WHO TRIED
VERY HARD TO MAKE HER HAPPY SHE WAS DOWN RIGHT MISERABLE AND THE ONLY ONE WHO COULD PUT HER IN HER PLACE WAS MY GRANDFATHER
AND HE DID IT MORE THAN ONCE SHE BACKED DOWN WITH HER TAIL BETWEEN HER LEGS AND HE WAS NOT THE ABUSIVE TYPE BUT WHEN HE PASSED ALL HELL BROKE LOOSE MY AUNT WAS ABUSED ALL HER LIFE
SHE WAS NOT WHAT YOU CALLED THE ANGEL SHE COULD NOT DO ANYTHING RIGHT MY GRANDMOTHER ABUSED HER STILL THE DAY SHE DIED
MY GRANDMOTHER WAS DIAGNOSED WITH DEMENTIA IN HER EARLY 90S
SHE WOULD NOT EXCEPT ANY HELP SHE THREW MY COUSIN OUT OF THE HOUSE AND TOLD LIVE IN THE SHELTER SHE COULD CARE LESS MY COUSIN QUIT HER JOB TO HELP HER AND THIS IS WHAT SHE GOT IN RETURN
OVER THE YRS STARTING IN 1990 GRANDMA HAD A STROKE WAS DIAGNOSED WITH DIABITIES BROKE HER WRIST AND HIP SHE WAS PUT IN AN ASSITED LIVING HOUSING AND WAS MISERABLE
SHE BEGGED MY COUSIN TO COME BACK AND MY GRANDMOTHER WAS PAYING HER OTHERWISE SHE WOULD LEAVE THAN SHE THREW HER OUT AGAIN AND THIS TIME MY SIS N LAW DID THE SAME THING QUIT HER JOB TO STAY WITH HER IN OCT OF 06 GRANDMA DEVELOPED AN INFECTION
SHE WENT DOWN HILL FROM THERE MY BROTHER WHO HAD POA PUT HER IN THE HOSPITAL AND THAN IT WAS DECIDED FOR HER TO GO TO THE NURSING HOME SHE HAS SINCE PASSED AT THE AGE OF 99
SO YES I UNDERSTAND PLEASE GRIN AND BEAR IT AFTER NOT VISITING
GRANDMA IN THE NURSING HOME FOR A MONTH SHE WAS SAY HAPPY TO SEE US ALL
GET YOUR MOTHER CHECKED FOR DIABITIES BECAUSE THIS CAN MAKE PEOPLE VERY ABUSIVE IT APPEARS MY GRANMOTHER HAD THIS FOR ALONG TIME AND SHE WAS A SUGAR HOLIC SHE WOULD NOT SEE A DR UNTILL MY BROTHER TOLD HER YOUR GOING AND THATS IT SHE HAD NOBODY ELSE
SHE WAS NOT GOING TO ARGUE WITH HIM


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