waiting is not my strong suit eithor alffe. In that we are most certainly alike. I wait for the judge to send the paperwork to me. I cry each day it does not come. After a nine year try to solve my family issues, it is hard to wait for that person who can help to respond. I was told to be still, this judge has a heavy workload and I am only one of many who needs help. That put me in my place but quick. Sometimes listening to the advise of others really helps. Send good vibes my way please, so that I can stay patient and allow this situation to develope as it must. Thank you for caring, allfie, and all the others who would send those vibes my way. . ginnie