I don't blame you. I'm the same way . . .if things are stable, I don't want to rock the boat. They were stable for years but things have changed. I'm working toward getting that stability back and then, I too, won't rock the boat.

BTW - Now I have this song stuck in my head . . .

"to rock the boat, don't rock the boat baby
rock the boat, don't tip the boat over
rock the boat, don't rock the boat baby
rock the boat-t-t-t-t"