[hello andy and alffe, thank you. I still wait for the judge to send the packet of information. I think there is some finacial disclosure stuff. I also have a paralegal friend, who offered yesterday her services to get me through the correct proceedures. Like if I have to call the judge, you don't call the lady on the other end a secretary but an assistant. This waiting is hard. I spent all day yesterday rounding up all information I have been collecting for nine years in hopes one-day that someone would listen. I wrote a single paragraph. I do believe there is divine intervention at times, or maybe group vibes that send good wishes toward this judge. I am not sure I should say his name on this forum. When there is an end to this, I will tell you the whole situation. In the mean time, anyone have any good boxing gloves?, I'm up for a fight., Knowing somebody cares helps. ginnie PS.Pray for the storms to end for the whole country. I am in an uninsured home on the west coast.