Hi Hon.
First of all, please let me give you a hug.
You don't know me, My name is Melody and I read your post. You and your daughter are lucky to have each other. She's been through so much already but thank god she has you beside her.
You have been given the correct forum. You will find others who have similar situations and you will be given good information.
I have never walked in your shoes but I just wanted to let you know that your post touched me and you and your daughter will be in my prayers this evening.
Best of luck
Melody