Congratulations on your anniversary!
A toilet is great! I love practical gifts and a toilet is definitely one of the most practical gifts.
As of the seat up or down issue, DBF and I each have our own bathrooms. He can leave the seat up all he wants.
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His bathroom is off the master bedroom and mine is the "guest" bathroom in the hall. It works out just fine.