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Originally Posted by daniella
KB welcome and I am sorry about your husband. I am sorry your husband is having such a hard time and taking it out on you. Is he under pain doctor treatment? Has he thought of seeing someone to help him cope mentally?
I think it is so important for both side of this to talk about how they feel. Keeping things inside is not helping anyone. You can tell your husband how you feel you can't make him happy. Ask him what could help him? I think for you as a loved one it is important for you to still enjoy life. I know this is hard but going out with a friend to dinner etc can really help you take a break so to speak and regroup. There are support groups for families and people who have rsd or other chronic conditions you may want to look into.
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Thank you for the reply. I have tried to look for groups on-line but i guess maybe I am looking i the wrong areas or something. I find ones that are for the person RSD but not for the loved ones.
I have tried to talk to him about it and most of the time it is like talking to a wall. i understand that he is in a lot of pain and he is under the care of a pain management dr. but nothing seems to help. This monday is the day that the trial period for the neurostilulation is over and the lead comes out. But that just means more pain just in a different area of the body. I feel so lost in his life. and going out with friends is not really something that I can do. no one to watch our little man and no one to be here for my husband while I am gone.
