I read the article you sent. Yes my deep anger is out and going. Not being able to see my grandchild, or my daughter, is more than I can or will bear. I am still waiting for the judge after 6 weeks. I sent another letter off to him last sat. What he said, and wound up doing are two different things. No paperwork yet, and after a 9 year struggle to find a way to survive, he has not responded to me. I will send the group of papers to my senator next.
I am also ready to leave my home. I have packed all my cloths I want to keep. and prepared all my documents. My son does try, but he is angry and resentful most of the time to me. He is replacing a back door for me so I do not flood out when it rains. I am a burden to him, the friend I live with and to society, as they nor foot the bill for my failure. I couldn't earn enough for insurance and raise my two kids alone. I could not put money aside for my retirement. My health failed, and truely I don't know if there are any other options for me, if I can't be released from this family trust, I will not be able to take care of this place. I also wonder why I have to pay taxes on a home in trust to me. It belongs to my son, why won't the gov. let him pay for the taxes as this house will be going to him? Instead they took away my social security check as I could not pay the taxes on the island home I have. Now I have to pay my son back, and then keep giving him this money for furture taxes. That leaves me with $296 per month, to live on and pay utilities. Can any one you know do that if they are in a house? It does not cover the cost of my utilities, much less for any upkeep to keep me safe. My family took over $200,000 from my parents, and they leave me in the condition I am in, not caring one bit. My mother thought the gov. would allow me to keep my monies, and still get help. NO, she was wrong. The Gov. would not help unless I had under, $2,000. So the money I was to use for the taxes and upkeep were used instead to keep me alive with my health conditions. The Gov. will not let your family help you with your bills in any way shape or form. Why does the Gov. insist we become destitute before they give the help WE EARN.???????? After 10 surgeries, and lousy family, and more trouble ahead, I am loosing hope. This judge has not responded anymore. So what now I ask myself....Any ideas of what I can do to keep this roof over my head? Shall Sally sell sea shells by the sea shore on saturday and sunday, to earn my utilities? I would be required to report that anyway. This all is lousy, and I am fresh out of what to do...always ginnie, thank you for caring. Truely Alffe I feel sick inside about all of it.