Mike - never think you had any part in Andi's decision to abandon hope. She had tried a couple of months earlier with neurontin (hard to top yourself with neurontin, but can damage the kidneys bigtime) - also, Andi wasn't that young, 26, and had addiction issues...who could know? You did your level best to lead her to the light, be proud of yourself for that. You cared, and showed it. Good for you.

Roz - I do hope you can get this cellulitis cleared up, you must be feeling pretty low, take care please...

Here's hugs for you both
all the best.