Hi BPD4Life
we welcome you to Neurotalk
we do have some members dealing with personality disorders and so I hope they will find your posts here and join in offering you support
In the meantime, I would also like to refer you to our sister site PsychCentral
where I feel you will find many more active members who are dealing with BPD etc
here is the link to the community forums at PsychCentral
http://forums.psychcentral.com/