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Originally Posted by dmplaura
Dej is awesome!  I'll read her post in a moment  .
The urge question... I don't quite know how to describe mine. I just am conscious of how long I've not gone (I keep a diary) and out of the blue (usually after I go out on a walk), I will feel like if I don't get to a bathroom ASAP, it's going to be messy.
Once there, then it's literally no 'involvement' on my part to go, it just goes. Rather, I don't have to put in an effort for it.
I don't really feel any less bloated or 'empty', but I know I've successfully ejected the cargo otherwise, you know? |
Sorry for my late reply, my DH & I just got home from our trip today.
For me, I am only conscious that there is stool, pressing against the muscle, and it is uncomfortable. No urge to evacuate, so, I will gently strain, and sometimes some will pass. The straining causes the nerves in my spine to burn, and it makes my back hurt.
During these times, the stool is narrow.
Other times, if it is really full, and the stool is firm, it will force the muscle to open, but only some of the stool will pass. It is like the muscle clamps shut.