Good grief! You sure have had your share of problems!
Has your doctor tried you on Xanax? That's a great medication for anxiety but you have to be very careful with it, as it's addictive. It's usually for short-term use. I know that when I was having severe anxiety & panic attacks, the Xanax helped me get thru them. Unfortunately, I DID become addicted to it, and it was terrible getting off of it.
I wish there was something I could offer in the way of help -- but I'm at a loss. All I can do is offer prayers, and the hope that they'll find a solution soon.
God bless & take care of yourself. Hugs, Lee