I can relate to how you feel, Dave. Since I've become "homebound" for the most part it's usually me that does the reaching out. One of my closest friends (I thought) hasn't contacted me in over two months. I know she's busy and her job takes up much of her time. But just a short call to say "I'm thinking of you" would just make my day.

I know I'm more sensitive about these things since I've been home. More time to think about it, I guess. But I know exactly what you're saying. I know I wouldn't accept numerous invitations to go out or do things - especially in the evenings - but it's nice to know folks are at least thinking of you. I haven't dropped off the face of the earth, people!

That's why I love this place, too. I don't feel like I have to explain myself or offer excuses as to why I "can't" today.

Plus, money problems seem to magnify any other distressful feelings. Money is always an issue for me. I don't like it but I am very grateful for what I do have as I know you are, too.