Welcome,
You're a veteran with 8 years behind you.
You certainly are not alone. There's so much info here, it will blow your mind.
So many posts to read that can give you ideas and help.
Please take your time and read as much as you can here.
Ask questions when you need to. We'll try to answer as soon as we can.
Here's some hugs for ya... ((()))
We can be your new TOS family. LOL! ! ! !
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Old post but it's a good start. Hope you find helpful things for yourself.