I think it makes more sense to get a few books and look for the sections that are most relevant to you. There doesn't seem to be one catch-all book out there. Each has strengths and weaknesses. Coping with MTBI and Brainlash seem to be the ones people turn to the most, but the books Mark mentioned may be as useful or better. Hopefully someone comes out with a more complete, current and practical book in the near future.