LOL, Sally, but she's my only grandchild, I love her to pieces, and she could throw cow manure fastballs at me and I wouldn't write her out of my will!

By all means, all I have to do is say "I don't think I can do it", and they'll change their plans, leave a couple of hours early, etc. It just gets to me sometimes when I'm in lala-land, happily pretending I'm (almost) "normal", and it comes out of nowhere, WHAP!!