Mari.
You take me back to to the death of a a co-worker who had been a friend before I stared working there. We had so much in common & such fun! I knew her family treated her like a great weight, so it was not a surprise when they found her death such a nuisance.

They asked me to clean out her work space & give them "anything of value." I did. I gave them anything worth $, & anything Sue treasured I kept. I don't even feel guilty, even tho some of it's worth a few bucks.