Hi sweetie !

Ok, remember that in any job, there is always going to be a black sheep... yeah, an a**hole who will say bad things about people... so, try not to focus... if his direct coaches are happy with Derrick and his job, why bother about someone's else comments ??

Now, what is important is Darrick himself...

First, the bathroom thing... 20 minutes... does he indeed go ? or he just like to stay in there alone without doing anything ?? Sorry, I got a little lost on that part, but, if he has some trouble with pee/poo I think there is always a medcine that can help... if he only likes to go in there, perhaps you need to talk more with him until finding out why he likes to do that... maybe he gets tired or annoyed by people ?? and then we could wonder who...

About memorizing problems... Mari said it already but I will say it again... ALL MEMORY PROBLEMS can be solved wirh NOTES ! My boss and I do it all the time... (just look the pic of my desk... FULL OF POST-ITS !! ) Im nowadays a fan of notes and list... I even have fun doing them... they not only remember me what I have to do, but also, how I have to do it and when, etc... So yeah, Derrick might actually enjoy getting this costume of making lists AND taking them everywhere....

I like post.its because you can paste/take/re-paste them from one place to another one... and they have nice colors !

Hang in there hun, we will solve this