Your concerns are valid. This may seem over-simplified, but, find a new Neurologist and keeping trying until you find one that you are confident in with a compassionate and caring staff. Hopefully there is a Pediatric Neurologist that specializes in epilepsy in your area.

For the most part in neurology, there are specialist within the speciality. Many Neuros don't practiced in all areas of neurology. You'll need one that can meet your needs and concerns. It might take visiting a few or going to consultations with your own copies of her test results. It's a pain and can be time consuming but worth it when you have the right medical support.

Wishing you well on your quest.