I have such respect and compassion for your husband. He is trying to do the dance and believe me it will serve him so well. You sound like you walk right beside him. My husband is like that. I too miss what I wanted to do for work but I havae found a way to have my dream job! I sell antiques literally from my bed! LOL I started the whole thing with 100.00 and now I have a house full of interesting fun things and a prorfit each month. That kind of activity for my mind is crucial. RSD can;t get near my business. That is where I find the me who isfighting the pain and medications. I can be bright and funny and I can be successful every day. I pray your huband finds that place. Walk beside him and I can ever help in an way just ask.