I have a really good friend, named, Arthur. He's a friend from some
support-groups, I attend, for people with mental illnesses. Anyhow,
Arthur has a fiancee, who, has been diagnosed with Cancer.
Now! She *could* have life-extrending surgery/ procedures, which,
*could* extend her life, by, a couple of years. Problem is, her faith won't
allow her to have this done. I can't remember what faith she is, but,
she and Arthur are of different faiths. Anyhow, I feel, she's being very
unfair to Arthur, who, loves her more, than, life, itself!! Also, she has a
child from a previous marriage/ relationship, who, Arthur loves as, his own
and legally adopted, recently! My question is, do I tell Arthur the
thuth, which is, I think, she's treating Arthur *and* her son horribly,
or, do I keep my mouth shut, when, Arthur comes to me and tells me
how devestated he is, because, she doesn't care enough about herself,
to salvage their relationship and be with him for as long, as, possible???

Phyllis