I'm trying to think of a way to say this without giving my identity away .

The man that I share my life with is causing me much pain and stress. I'm trying to escape it. I'm upset because I used to feel safe coming here to talk about things in my life that were upsetting.

I have to hide my identity because he may search for my posts to see if I am talking about our problems and my dilemma. Does that help?

I would like to start a group . How do I do that? If you can help with this, pm me. Thanks in advance!