Dear Allen,

I was having a very similiar situation with one of my boys. I was very concerned about how he was going to handle his career and have a productive life.

It's very hard to put a wise head on young shoulders.

My son was of age. I saw a bright kid not even coming close to his potential. The hardest words I had to tell him was sink or swim.

I am not sure if it was harder on me or him to tell him that. But today he is doing very very well. I am so proud of him. Hang in their, Hugs, Roz xxx