I'm sorry that both of you are going through tough times with your sons. I used to have the same fears and worries about my daughter. I always worried what would happen to her after we were gone. She was so dependent on me, especially. I guess God had other plans for her, and now I don't have to worry about her anymore. I hope she is in heaven and realizes just how much both her father and I worried about her. There were always those who were out to take advantage of her kindness. I hope that they rot in hell. God spared her any further heartache and heartbreak.