It is a very hard decision to make. Maybe DS can come with you and the vet can tell him that it is better to let him go than to be in pain. Either way it is not going to be easy. I am still mad at my mom for taking the 20 yr old cat to be put down and not telling me. She knew I would have gotten in the car and driven down in the snow and gone with her and she knew I had just come off of steroids so she decided not to tell me beforehand.

I still drove down that night to help her bury him, even though she wouldn;t let me touch the shovel.