I am so, so sorry. You have been thru the straits of hades today, then over the DontGivaSh!t Rapids. Bad news in every direction. It sounds as if everyone was talking about you and "you" were strangely absent from their concern.

I was handed a medical transfer today, after 10 yrs at my job. I don't even have a diagnosis after 15 yrs of going downhill. & I had no clue any transfer was coming. I thought of talking to my lawyer, but...

You're here, so you're able to help yourself. Me too. We've got help here, support. Friends who truly understand. Things will never be the same. But with god's help too we'll be okay. A day at a time. Hey, I nearly died of alcoholism, & now I've been sober since May 9, 1980. Believe me, that's a miracle.

So how about you? Any miracles on your perch of the family tree?